How to answer a current salary question without lying. Decline and talk about this role, or share the real number. The script will not inflate it.
Sample figures are filled in so you can see the script. Replace them with your offer before you copy it.
Your script
A current-pay figure is filled in, and “I will say this number” is off, so the script does not speak it.
No offer numbers yet.
Target total compensation: $170,000.
Opener
Thanks for asking. I would like to hear the band you have for the software engineer role, and I can tell you the number I am targeting so we both know if it is worth continuing.
Say this, then stop. Let them respond before you add the number.
Anchor and justification
My target is $170,000. For the scope we have discussed, that is the number I would accept. I can work from $163,000 to $179,000 if bonus, equity, or level changes the total. I would not want an offer at the bottom of that range unless another part of the package made up the difference.
What band are you hiring against?
The market check I can cite is that published ranges for this level in my city sit around $180,000 to $200,000 total. The scope I can defend is this. I own a production service and I am the person on call for it.
Give the target, then ask for their band. Do not fill a silence with a lower number.
If they say this is our best offer
I hear you, and I appreciate you saying it directly. If this base is the ceiling, I still want to see whether a signing bonus, the equity grant, or the level can move. If none of those can, I will decide on the package as it stands rather than ask the same question again.
Thank them before you ask what else can move. Then wait.
If they say the budget is fixed
Understood. A salary band is often fixed once the level is fixed. Signing bonuses and equity grants sometimes sit outside that annual budget. Is either of those actually open? If both are closed, what does a pay review look like in six months, and what would have to be true for the level to change?
Ask one question, then stop. A list of demands sounds like you did not hear them.
If they ask for your current salary
I would rather keep this on the pay for this role. A prior salary is a different job, and in some places an employer should not ask. The number I am using here is $170,000.
I am not going to invent a current salary, and I am not required to answer with one.
You can decline. If you answer, use the real number.
Non-salary asks
If salary cannot move the whole way, I will ask about other terms I actually want. I will start with a signing bonus.
If base cannot reach the target, I would like to talk about a signing bonus that closes part of the first-year gap. I want the amount, and any payback terms, in writing.
On equity, I would like the grant size, the vesting schedule, the cliff, and what happens to vested shares if I leave. If these are options, I also want the last independent valuation and how long I have to exercise after I leave. I will not treat a percentage as cash.
I would like to know how refresh grants work here: whether they happen on a schedule, what they depend on, and whether this offer is only the initial grant.
Remote work matters to me. I would like the written policy: which days, which locations are allowed, and whether pay changes with location.
I would like to confirm paid time off: the number of days, whether they are accrued, and what happens to unused days.
I can start on a date I can keep. If you need someone sooner, tell me the real date and I will say yes or no, rather than agree and then slip.
Pick the two you care about. You do not have to read all six.
Closing
I would like to get to yes. If $170,000 is possible, I can move forward. If it is not, I am open to a different mix of base, bonus, and equity that lands in the same place. What is the next step on your side?
Stop talking after the question. The next person to speak should be them.
Email version
Subject: Salary expectations for the software engineer role
Hello,
Thanks for asking. I would like to hear the band you have for the software engineer role, and I can tell you the number I am targeting so we both know if it is worth continuing.
My target is $170,000. For the scope we have discussed, that is the number I would accept. I can work from $163,000 to $179,000 if bonus, equity, or level changes the total. I would not want an offer at the bottom of that range unless another part of the package made up the difference.
What band are you hiring against?
The market check I can cite is that published ranges for this level in my city sit around $180,000 to $200,000 total. The scope I can defend is this. I own a production service and I am the person on call for it.
If base cannot reach the target, I would like to talk about a signing bonus that closes part of the first-year gap. I want the amount, and any payback terms, in writing.
I would like to get to yes. If $170,000 is possible, I can move forward. If it is not, I am open to a different mix of base, bonus, and equity that lands in the same place. What is the next step on your side?
Thank you,
[Your name]
Current salary is a different job. Some recruiters ask from habit, and some places restrict the question. You can keep the conversation on the role in front of you. If you answer, answer with the real number. This page puts $128,000 in the current-pay box and leaves “I will say this number” off, so the script declines and does not speak $128,000. Check the box only if you intend to say it.
Two honest options
Option one: “I would rather talk about the pay for this role.” Then give your target. That is the default script. It is not a dodge if you immediately provide a number for the job they are hiring. It is a refusal to let the last job set the ceiling.
Option two: share the real total, including bonus only if you actually received it, and still name the target for this role. The script adds that paragraph when you check the box. It also says you will not inflate the figure. Do not “round up” into a different number. Rounding into a lie is still a lie.
Know the local rule before you decide you must answer. This page is not a legal memo. If a form will not submit without a figure and you believe the question should not be asked, you can say so or walk away. Do not type a fantasy salary to satisfy a form.
Questions
Can I refuse to share my current salary?
Often, yes. The script gives you that refusal and then states your target for this role. In some places the employer should not ask. Check your local rule.
Should I include bonus and equity in current pay?
If you choose to share, say what the number includes. A base compared with someone else’s total is a muddled conversation. Be consistent.
Updated 2026-10-08. Wording help, not legal advice.